Dr. Banner! Now might be a good time to get angry.
That's my secret, Captain. I'm always angry. (morphs into the Hulk and punches the leviathan)
I was reminded of that scene when I was talking to a client about their motivation, or in this case lack thereof. The gist of the conversation is that he found it hard to be motivated to train regularly, and to nourish his body with good food choices, and to lay off the alcohol.
But the kicker was when he said something along these lines; "Well it's easy for you, you're a trainer, you're always motivated!"
Because I am a trainer I have some unique genetic makeup that causes me to be full of energy all the time, never get tired, always feel like working out, and be predisposed to eating broccoli and sprouts, while vomiting at the site of chocolate cake.
Tell that to my 280 pounds self from 15 years ago. The one that couldn't walk up the stairs without getting winded, got home from work and crashed on the coach for four hours every night, was pre-diabetic and just plain unhealthy.
I am no superhero, but I do have a secret. Just like Bruce Banner.
Here it is.
I am not motivated all the time. But I take action anyways.
You see we have motivation all wrong. Motivation is about emotions, and we tend to be ruled by our emotions, rather than control them. If I only trained when I felt like it, if I only ate right when I felt like it, if I only went to bed early when I felt like it - I'd be the mess I was 15 and 20 years ago.
Just like in the dictionary, Motivation follows Action. Feelings follow Activity.
When you don't feel like it, do it anyway.
It's not easy. If it were easy everybody would do it But think about it this way.
Have you ever regretted getting that workout in, once it was over? Have you ever regretted biting your tongue and responding kindly rather than reacting in anger? Have you ever regretted an act of service when you rather would have stayed home?
Didn't think so.
You absolutely will need some of level of discipline, and success breeds success. The more you exercise a little discipline, the easier it gets to continue to do so. The opposite is also true.
Don't tell yourself you are not motivated. You already know.
Take action. Put your feet on the floor, and get your butt out the door.
You won't regret it.
Let's Get Smashing!